A Peace Remembered: Lest We Forget

The young woman can still remember one particular Remembrance Day when her words and actions did nothing more than offend someone she loved so very much. It was the one and only argument she ever had with her Grandmother and it happened over Remembrance Day. At the time, the young woman was living and working in London. She remembers noticing that Londoners take Remembrance Day very seriously indeed. More so, she thought, than in her native Canada. She wondered if the blitz had something to do with this.

While most of the poppies people wore were red, she began to see white poppies appear on the lapels of more than just a few people. She read in the newspaper that those who were committed to peace and believed that, for the most part, Remembrance Day only serves to glorify war, were donning white poppies. You could pretty well draw a dividing line between the generations using the colours of poppies as your guide. Young people, who had never experienced war tended to wear white poppies, while those who were older and who still had vivid memories of war, they tended to wear red poppies. In many homes poppies in and of themselves managed to create wars. The idealistic young woman was just twenty and her commitment to peace determined her choice.

She was wearing a white poppy the day she traveled up to the Midlands to visit her Grandmother. It was the day before Remembrance Day when she arrived on her Gran’s doorstep. She’d forgotten all about the white poppy which adorned her lapel. She couldn’t help thinking that there was something odd about the reception she received from her Gran. It wasn’t exactly what you would call a warm welcome. Her Gran was upset about something. But the young woman couldn’t quite figure out what, because her Gran appeared to be giving her the silent treatment.

Her Grandmother just served dinner and listened quietly as the young woman chatted on about her week in London. After dinner, the young woman suggested that they pop down to the pub for a chat with her Gran’s neighbors. Usually, her Gran would have jumped at the chance to show off her granddaughter to her friends. But she seemed more than a little reluctant on this occasion. She so rarely refused her granddaughter anything, but it still took a great deal of cajoling before the young woman managed to talk her Gran into venturing out into the world. As they were putting on their coats to leave, the Grandmother asked her granddaughter to remove the white poppy from her coat. The young woman looked at her Gran’s red poppy and refused. She began to lecture in that pompous way that only young people, who don’t know any better can, about the horrors of war and the need to stand up for peace. Her Grandmother insisted that she could stand up anywhere that she wanted to for peace but not in her local, not in front of her friends, not tonight or all nights.

It was then that their battle began in earnest. They started calmly, but firmly arguing over the damn poppies. Before long, they were shouting and eventually the Grandmother, stormed out of the house and went to the pub without her granddaughter. The young woman discretely went to bed before her Grandmother came home. Each woman slept fitfully, bemoaning the fact that they had declared their own kind of war. 

Early the next morning the young woman rose quietly, hoping to dash off to London before her Grandmother awoke. She was just about to make a clean get away, when her Gran came into the living room. She was carrying a uniform; a uniform the young woman had never seen before; a uniform which stopped the young woman cold in her tracks.

Over breakfast, the old woman explained that during the Second World War, she had joined the Women’s Auxiliary Air Force. The men were all off fighting and so the government had consented to letting the women, “do their bit.”  Her job in the WAAFs was carried out on the home front. Every evening after she had fed her kid, she would send them off to the air-raid shelter with a neighbour. Then she would put on her uniform and head off to the hills over Birmingham, where she would “man” an anti-aircraft gun.

After telling the young woman stories which she had rarely told anyone before, the old woman invited her granddaughter to come with her to British Legion, later that morning. Stunned by all she had been told, the young woman changed her plans and agreed to meet her Gran down at the Legion hall in about an hour. On her way to the Legion hall, the young woman bought a red poppy and timidly pinned it to her lapel.

When she finally caught up with her Grandmother, the old woman couldn’t help but smile when she saw the red poppy pinned to her beloved granddaughter’s lapel. The young woman couldn’t manage a smile. Not threw her tears. You see, the young woman was overcome by the sight of the white poppy which was pinned to her Gran’s lapel. The two women fell into one another’s arms and for a moment, just a moment, the two held one another other in the presence of a peace beyond words; a peace which surpasses all our understanding. The peace which only LOVE can achieve. The peace which the world is dying to experience. 

As the last post was trumpeted on that cold November, the 11th day, of the 11th hour, separated by generations, perspectives, opinions, and commitments, two women stood united in LOVE and remembered. Together, they stood hoping against hope for peace.

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