To Be LOVE in the World: Lent 3A – John 4:1-42


Readings:  Thomas Aquinas “EMBRACE THAT”  found here

St. Teresa of Avila “DESIRE YOU” found here

Gospel of John 4:1-42 found here

Watch the video below which was shown in worship after the reading of the Gospel: The Woman at the Well (below) and then listen to the sermon.

I did not know her. She had been calling the church for years and I had been responding to her calls for help for, I’d say about three years. But I did not know her. She was just another woman down on her luck who needed help to buy food for her family. She would call, almost every other week and because she did not have transportation, I would drive over to whatever hovel she and her two boys were living in. But I did not know her. She was just another woman who couldn’t seem to get her act together and so she relied on hand-outs from the church to supplement her social assistance. Whenever I went over to wherever it was that she was living, she would always invite me in and I would always agree, but just for a moment, I’d tell her I was very busy and I had other places to go and other people to see. But the truth is, the places where she managed to find shelter always smelled so band and I usually just wanted to be on my way so that I could escape the odors that permeated the filthy apartments in musty basements. Her various homes were so depressing that I could not bear to sit down. She would always offer me tea and I would always politely refuse, claiming that I’d just had a cup, thank-you very much. I did not know her.

I suppose I did not want to know her. Maybe I’ve met too many women just like her. Maybe I’m jaded. Maybe the thought of becoming immersed in the sinkhole of sadness that is her life was just too much to bear. So, I’d just smile and give her a handout. I’d learned a long time ago not to ask too many questions; her problems were more than our meager resources could handle. I’ve been down that road before, so I’d hand over the grocery vouchers and indulge in some small-talk. I did not know her. I did not want to know her.

One day, in the midst of our small-talk, her little boy poked his head around the corner and said, “Boo!” His nose was running and his eyes were all watery, but he smiled up at me and reached up his opened hand. In his grimy palm sat about half-a-dozen smarties. “Here,” he said, “One’s for you.” I looked down at the smarties and then into his smiling, watery eyes and I knew what I had to do. After all, what’s one germ infested smartie between friends. So, I reached down and picked a red smartie from his sticky palm, popped it into my mount and as it began to sweetly melt in my mouth, something began to melt in me.

We talk a great deal around here about embodying Christ in the world. Often in our prayers together we express our desire to “be LOVE in the world.” Our best selves want to be LOVE in the world. In our hearts and minds we know that if Christ is to be embodied in the world then somebody’s hands are going to have to reach out and touch some places that we would rather not touch. There are places in this world where people live lives that we are so glad that we don’t have to live; the kind of lives that we would rather not know about. There are sinkholes of depression out there in which people live in such desperation that we would just as soon flee from as quickly as possible. There are people out there who live in ways that we don’t even want to imagine. There are people out there that we just don’t want to know because if we know them we just might begin to love them and love, well love can be messy. Love can be so complicated and so very demanding and if we are not careful we could be consumed by the needs of those people that we’d rather not know because after all is said and done, if they’d made better choices, or if they hadn’t done this or that, or if they’d only think before they act, or if they’d just do what we’ve been telling them to do, or if the government would only do more, or if the rich people would just open up their wallets, or if the world was perfect then we wouldn’t have to know them.

Let us be LOVE in the world.

But not to everyone.

Let us be LOVE in the world.

But not right now.

Let us be LOVE in the world.

But only on our terms.

Let us be LOVE in the world.

But only if they show gratitude and shape up and do better.

Let us be LOVE in the world.

But not if it means doing this or that.

The sticky red smartie hadn’t finished dissolving in my mouth before the snotty-nosed little boy offered up another smartie. I didn’t have the heart to refuse. So, I popped a yellow smartie into my mouth and as I thanked the little guy for his delicious gifts, he wrapped his arms around my legs smearing my pants with the evidence of his embrace. Then like she always does she asked me if I’d like a cup of tea. The sweet, stickie smarties and the snotty embrace had caused a lump to form in my throat; perhaps it was my heart trying to leap out of my chest. I picked up the smelly little boy as I declared that a cup of tea would be lovely, thank-you very much.

I wish I could tell you that things changed dramatically after our little tea party. I can’t. All I can say is that over many cups of tea I have come to know her. I still wish she’d smarten up and do things better. But I know her and I know just how difficult it is for her to change her ways. My love for her is far from perfect. But I do love her in ways that I once couldn’t even begin to imagine. I know her and she knows me and I believe that both of us are better off for knowing one another.

Sometimes, communion is just a couple of smarties and some tea. But even the stickiest, grimiest, communion can open you up to the kind of LOVE you never knew was possible. These grubby little communions can indeed become the kin-dom of God.

So let us be LOVE in the world. Let it be so. Amen.

Benediction:                            Let us be LOVE in the world.

Let us be the hands of Christ.

Let us be the breath of the Spirit.

Let us be the LOVE of God.

Here and Now.

In dark places as well as pleasant places.

In good situations and in bad situations.


Let it be so. Amen.



1 thought on “To Be LOVE in the World: Lent 3A – John 4:1-42

  1. Pastor Dawn, as I read your narrative I recognised myself and most of our congregation, how we react to the ‘hopeless’ cases who keep on coming back to our church for handouts or other help, who seem incapable of getting their act together. Thank you for your powerful words for us to be LOVE in the world when-ever and how-ever to whom-ever. I am sharing your reflection with my church friends. I live in regional Australia and this is the first time I have visited your blog, and it won’t be the last!

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